In this inspiring episode, we sit down with Lindsay Milner, who shares her powerful story of living with juvenile rheumatoid arthritis from a young age, dealing with relentless bullying, and how these experiences shaped her into the empathetic and resilient person she is today. Lindsay’s journey is a testament to the strength of the human spirit, the importance of family support, and the power of perseverance. She also opens up about raising her children, one of whom has special needs, and how she navigates parenting with empathy and strength.
What you’ll hear…
- Lindsay’s Early Diagnosis:
- Lindsay was diagnosed with juvenile rheumatoid arthritis at the age of three after her mother’s persistence led to a proper diagnosis.
- She recounts the trauma of constant pain, swelling, and the emotional toll of frequent hospital visits.
- Coping with Bullying:
- Lindsay talks about the severe bullying she faced due to her physical condition, including being called cruel nicknames.
- The impact of bullying on her self-esteem and how she learned to persevere despite the challenges.
- Family Support and Resilience:
- Lindsay shares how her strong Christian family, especially her parents, played a crucial role in her ability to cope with her condition and the bullying.
- The importance of not allowing her diagnosis to define her, as her parents encouraged her to participate in activities like dance and sports.
- The Transition to Healing:
- At the age of 11, Lindsay experienced what she and her family believe was a miraculous healing, as her symptoms significantly improved.
- Despite the physical improvements, Lindsay discusses the long-lasting emotional effects of her childhood experiences.
- Raising Children with Empathy:
- As a mother, Lindsay reflects on how her past influences the way she raises her children, especially her son who has medical needs.
- The challenges of teaching her children about resilience, empathy, and the importance of being kind to others, despite their differences.
- Navigating Modern Challenges:
- Lindsay explores the impact of social media on bullying and how it has changed the landscape for children today.
- She shares her concerns and strategies for helping her children navigate a world where bullying can follow them 24/7 through digital platforms.
- The Power of Forgiveness and Boundaries:
- The importance of forgiveness in Lindsay’s life and how she balances it with setting healthy boundaries.
- How Lindsay continues to work on not overcompensating for her past insecurities and teaching her children the same.
- Looking Ahead:
- Lindsay discusses the ongoing journey of healing and growth, and her aspirations for her children to live in a world with more acceptance and understanding.
- The potential of starting a support group for parents of special needs children, recognizing the isolation that often comes with the role.
Insights:
- “I wish that I would not have allowed anyone to make me feel a certain way.” – Lindsay Milner
- “It’s okay to be upset. It’s okay to cry. But it’s also important to forgive and set boundaries.” – Lindsay Milner
- “We need to be accepting of everyone, because everyone has something to offer this world.” – Lindsay Milner
Resources:
- Connect with Lindsay Milner
- Visit Lindsay’s Website
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Thank you for joining us for this heartfelt conversation with Lindsay Milner. Remember, resilience is a lifelong journey, and it’s okay to cry, forgive, and set boundaries along the way. Until next time, keep writing your extraordinary story!
